@PapaJohn Thanks for sharing.
Makes total sense. Very effective approach.It is an essential point that many couples probably haven't realized or done: you need to focus on her #pleasure to make her come. It is not something that can be easily and casually achieved "along the way".
If I may add: to make her #satisfied is not equal to making her orgasm. The former is broader, much broader. Seductive touch, soft kiss, desire in his eyes, all adds to, sometimes even replaces, #orgasm
@inanna @bots #orgasm, #toys, #satisfied
After 38 years of marriage & with sex better than ever, here is what we have figured out. They key for us, is completely focusing pleasure on one person at a time. 1st she gives me a blow job (My Pleasure), 2nd intercourse with her on top (MP/HP), 3rd 1st dildo & vibrator to her orgasm (HP), 4th intercourse w/me on top (MP), 5th 2nd, larger dildo and vibrator to her 2nd orgasm (HP), 6th intercourse w/me on top to orgasm. When finished we both collapse!!
48 | While digging Wilde's quotes, I found this:
“Faithfulness is to the emotional life what consistency is to the life of the intellect – simply a confession of failures.”
So true. I'm speaking as an intellect. The lack of consistency sometimes drives me mad.
About faithfulness, I don't know. Would you really care if your partner is faithful or not, as long as she/he treats you and your relationship exactly like before and unchanged?
37 | I think I found the ultimate guide to clit stimulation:
The name is a bit vulgar and the video is shot with a pornstar with zoomed view of real vagina.
If you can get used to it and put aside your prejudice, I really recommend the video as a must-watch for guys. It has everything, every little detail they need to know. Yes, I'm saying it as a woman.
Besides, the video points out some mistakes in porn.
25 | 如果你也像Bill Maher一样在感叹《五十度灰》何以走红，文学水平如何低下，电影如何烂，不妨这么想：
18 | 为什么有的男生很会前戏，很能带给女生愉悦，而有的男生只会活塞运动，两分钟完事？我个人以为，一切都归因于自信和自我安全感。
25 | I like Bill Maher and his show, so here a small helpful hint, for Bill and other men puzzled by #fiftyshadesofgrey going viral:
It is porn for women. At least for some women.
Do you ask porn to be good literature or good movie? No, because it's irrelevant.
21 | “女人的情欲如果在男人的手中逐步发动，大概不是因为这个男人按到了什么G点，更重要的原因是这个男人在女人身体上花了时间和心思， 达成了暖身的效果... 在调情的活动上，时间的长短比锁定某些看似撩拨的身体部位、姿势更为重要，男人的体贴耐心安抚了女人在亲密过程中对性的不安，让女人释放自己压抑的情趣。” —— 三木老师
20 | Not all women become emotionally unstable during periods. "She must be having her period." kind of comments are not only impolite, but also ignorant.
Some women do suffer from severe abdominal pain and are emotionally down; while some women can run half marathon and their moods and appetite are pretty much unaffected.
20 | 并非所有女性在大姨妈期间都会情绪失调。常见到用“大姨妈来了吧”明里暗里讽刺人的，挺讨厌的。
19 | "A (lucky) quarter of women can come from penetration alone."
I don't believe it.
It must be much lower than 25%.
A frank community for female pleasure
Inanna is dedicated to one purpose: help women get better sexual experiences (includes, but not limited to orgasm).
We believe: it is only worth doing, if it is enjoyable.
We hope: you could leverage the contents on Inanna to have more pleasure in bed (or elsewhere, of course).
Inanna is not for dating or hookups. However, feel free to use Inanna to find out what your partner likes
We are fully aware of the sensitivity here, hence Inanna is built with open-source tools and is detached from other social media to ensure anonymity and no secret data abuse. So, feel safe to speak up.
Why create Inanna? Explained here.